STRANGERS
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ENA (2023) 16 Episodes
Legal Melodrama, Divorce Grade: B+ Korean Drama Review by Jill, USA (Some Spoilers)
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Another
excellent Korean cast joining together to make a
melodrama penned by an unknown novice scriptwriter, Strangers
Again (2023) was both fun to watch at times,
intriguing to digest at other times, but also often
predictable as well (even the title kind of gives the
ending away!). I joked while watching it that the drama
was titled incorrectly, that it should have been called
Strangers Again And Again And Again because the
two main romantic couples, all lawyers, could never
fully tear themselves away from one another, even though
sometimes they wanted to desperately after fights or
divorce. Let's face it: the topic of divorce is a
difficult one to process, in either dramas or real
life. It takes a mature audience to fully comprehend a
problematic drama like this one, its many emotional ups
and downs. Even in Korea not a single episode of this
drama hit 2% in the ratings. The cast must have been
disappointed because they obviously worked very hard in
making this story come alive in a vibrant way, as much
as possible.
While watching this
drama on divorce lawyers and their relationships I kept
thinking back to a far superior drama about a divorced
couple who couldn't fully tear themselves away from one
another, the classic Ye Jin Son / Woo Sung Kam drama Alone
In Love (2006). I kept wondering if the
scriptwriter for Strangers Again had seen Alone
In Love because so many plot points seemed
to be lifted right out of the screenplay of the older
drama; for instance, an ex-husband who for some bizarre
reason tried to set up his ex-wife to date his best male
friend! Now who in their right mind would do something
like that? How could the ex-wife know for sure that the
friend wouldn't go right back to her ex-husband and tell
him everything that was happening between them? Shudder!
That plot twist was seen in both dramas.
I made the
decision to watch this drama till the end because of the
true excellence of the two lead actors involved with the
production, Kang Sora (Misaeng,
Doctor
Stranger,Warm
and Cozy) and Jang Seung Jo (Encounter,
Liar
Game, Snowdrop)
They had great chemistry together that helped to elevate
the script to a higher level. Ironically, in real life,
both actors are newly married to others and both have
babies at home. I kept wondering if they came to the set
and talked about their home lives: "What diapers are you
using?" "What baby food are you feeding yours?" "Do you
have a good pediatrician?" "Are you having trouble
sleeping at night?" "Does your baby have colic too?" I
wouldn't be surprised if the two of them had
conversations like that on set in between takes. Too
funny!
The Story:
Beautiful
thirty-something Oh Ha Ra (Kang Sora) is a successful
divorce lawyer working at a prestigious law firm in
Seoul. She sees her life turned upside down when
she is forced to work with her ex-husband, also a
divorce lawyer, named Goo Eun Beom (Jang Seung Jo),
since he's been re-hired by the CEO of the firm, Seo Han Gil (Jeon
Bae Su) and his partner CEO Hong Yeo Rae (Gil Hae
Yeon). The formerly married couple Ha Ra and Eun Beom
had had a ten-year relationship / marriage but Ha Ra
had suddenly been told by Eun Beom that he was in love
with another woman and wanted a divorce (we find out
later that that was a lie, which is revealed in a most
dramatic way during a court case before a judge!).
Working together in the
same firm again brings up past personal and legal
issues that make the work climate difficult for all
the other lawyers on staff, including Ha Ra's best
friend Kang Bi Chwi (Jo Eun Ji, Personal
Taste, Lost)
and the fellow lawyer she has a crush on, Kwon Si Wook
(Lee Jae Won, Master's
Sun, Bridal
Mask). This couple is going through their
own conflicts, especially when Bi Chwi ends up
pregnant out of wedlock. Si Wook is determined to
become a good husband and father in the situation but
Bi Chwi has cold feet about getting married,
especially when she sees the rocky relationship Ha Ra
has with Eun Beom. Plus she doesn't like the idea of
giving up her job to stay home with an infant. Si Wook
offers to become a house husband and to take care of
the baby full time, but Bi Chwi doesn't quite like
that idea either! It makes her feel guilty.
Working in an office specializing in
divorce cases of all different kinds, Ha Ra and Eun
Beom suddenly have countless new opportunities to talk
in-depth about the common problems that arise in
modern marriages, conversations which naturally create
nostalgia for their own old relationship. To try and
put distance between them Eun Beom introduces Ha Ra to
his best male friend Min Jae Gyeom (Mu Jin Sung, who
had an uncanny resemblance to Lee Jong Suk; they
should put them in a drama together playing
brothers!). That new relationship doesn't last long
however; Ha Ra still has trouble forgetting
Eun Beom. Meanwhile, her best friend Bi Chwi has
finally come to terms with marrying Si Wook.
Once the male friend
is out of the picture, the exes grow closer again,
especially when Ha Ra learns Eun Beom never had an
affair after all. Their strengthening relationship at
work and after hours makes them realize that they
still haven't overcome their deep romantic feelings
for one another. However, there are still problems,
especially with their relationships with extended
family members who are nervous about them getting back
together.
Then one night a big
confession finally erupts from Eun Beom to Ha Ra, that
the real reason he divorced her was because he didn't
want children and she did. It turns out he was blamed
by his mother for the death of a younger sister
because he had not been watching over her properly
when they were children; the little girl had run
outside alone and been killed in an accident. The
mental issues which resulted over this loss, and his
mother's anger at him, had tortured him terribly.
This was obviously a man who desperately needed mental
therapy and he put off getting it for decades. Will
Eun Beom's sense of guilt preclude a second marriage
between himself and Ha Ra?
Even though Strangers Again has a sad overall
theme, the two main actors said in interviews that
they decided to do the drama because it focused on a
divorced couple who had entered another phase of life,
where both had matured and might be able to succeed if
they tried to marry a second time. "They say that even
a couple who have lived together all their lives may
not know each other very well," stated Kang
Sora. Ha Ra and Eun Beom are able to delve deeper into
their new intimate feelings for one another, but will
those new romantic feelings make a second marriage
successful in the long run when other stresses arise
in their lives? For instance, Eun Beom still
doesn't want children, but Ha Ra does. How can they
deal with that problem? It seems insurmountable. That
darn biological clock is ticking for Ha Ra. She will
have to make a decision soon enough. And she does.
You can watch Strangers Again at Viki at this
link. Enjoy the great acting and the
roller coaster ride of the story. I should add that
this is a more mature story and minors should probably
not watch it. They have many teen boy idol dramas to
watch instead. Korea is always making those but dramas
about divorced people are few and far between! ;)